Saurora Grace, a 32-year-old sex surrogate from Manchester, claims she has slept with more than 100 married men over six years and believes her work has helped some of them improve their relationships with their wives. In an account published on Tuesday, 13 October, Grace described how clients approach her for support with intimacy, sexual confidence and communication in their marriages.
Grace says many of the men who seek her services have experienced long periods without sexual intimacy in their relationships. According to her account, some have struggled to discuss their needs with their wives and have turned to her for guidance after years of feeling disconnected from their partners.
Her work has attracted criticism from people who believe that becoming sexually involved with married men could damage their relationships. Grace maintains that her role is different from that of an affair partner and argues that some clients have found renewed confidence through their sessions with her.
Saurora Grace Explains Her Work as a Sex Surrogate
Grace said her interest in intimacy and relationships developed following the death of her mother in 2022. She described the experience as a turning point that prompted her to examine how people approach relationships, sexuality and shame.
According to her account, she subsequently trained in tantric sexology and tantric shamanic somatic healing before moving into sex surrogacy. She said she wanted to develop a deeper understanding of the difficulties people experience with intimacy rather than relying solely on her personal experiences.
Grace distinguishes sex surrogacy from escorting, describing her work as involving intimacy, personal development and sexual understanding. She says she works with both individuals and couples, helping clients explore their desires, build confidence and communicate more openly about their needs.
Although her work includes sexual contact with some clients, Grace presents it as part of a broader approach to intimacy. She says her aim is to help people understand themselves and their partners rather than encourage them to end their existing relationships.
Stories Behind Her Claims of Saving Marriages
In her interview, Grace discussed a regular male client in his 60s who, she said, had not had sex for a decade before seeking her services. According to Grace, he struggled to discuss sex with his wife and felt that his attempts to address their intimacy difficulties were unsuccessful.
She said the man initially had very little confidence and wanted to improve his relationship. He reportedly told his wife about Grace's work and suggested that she could also see couples. Grace said the wife felt threatened after looking her up and did not want to meet her.
According to Grace, the man continued seeing her individually and later reported that his relationship with his wife had become more loving. She said the couple had resumed having sex, although he still hoped to establish a more regular intimate relationship with his wife.
Grace believes her involvement helped the man remain in his marriage. However, this account reflects her description of the client's experience, and the publication did not independently establish the effect of her services on the couple's relationship.
She also described working with couples who approach her together. In one example, she said a married couple in their 30s booked a session to explore a shared sexual fantasy. Grace claimed that their time together also involved discussing relationship issues and developing ways to communicate more effectively.
Building Sexual Confidence and Communication
Grace says many married men approach her to discuss intimacy issues, improve their sexual confidence and learn how to communicate their needs more openly with their wives. She claims some clients seek advice on understanding their partners and addressing difficulties in their relationships.
She also says clients sometimes become emotional when discussing problems they struggle to raise at home. Grace believes these conversations can help them better understand their needs and relationships.
Grace said her partner, Jamie Braith, 46, supports her career. The couple have reportedly been together for two years. She maintains that discussing intimacy without shame is important, although individual experiences may differ between couples.
Sex Surrogacy and Marriage
Grace believes her work has helped some married men improve their relationships by addressing intimacy issues and building confidence. However, views differ on sexual involvement outside marriage, particularly when a partner is unaware of the arrangement.
She works with both individuals and couples, although some clients attend sessions without their wives. This means the partners may have different perspectives on the role her services play in their relationships.
Grace's belief that she has helped save marriages remains based on her own assessment and the experiences shared by her clients. These accounts do not independently establish whether her services have improved the couples' relationships in the long term.
Grace Responds to Criticism of Her Work
Grace said she has received criticism from people who believe her work could damage marriages, alongside supportive messages from women on TikTok who understand her perspective.
She maintains that some of her clients seek help with intimacy problems and sexual confidence rather than wanting to leave their partners. She believes her sessions can help them communicate their needs more openly.
However, the wives' perspectives were not fully represented in the reported accounts. Grace's belief that her work helps preserve marriages remains her own assessment, and its effects may differ between couples.
