'Meghan used to love me. She was always a daddy's girl, and now it's like I don't exist.' Thomas Markle, 82, isn't holding back. Meghan and Prince Harry are about to move his only grandchildren, Archie and Lilibet, back to the UK, and he's not part of the plan.
He discovered the news from a TV ticker, not through a call or even a text from his daughter—just a headline rolling across the screen while he was in a rehab facility in the US.
He was still trying to adapt to life after having his leg amputated in the Philippines last December. 'I'm hurt and upset that she doesn't seem to care about me, even though I'm in the hospital,' he said.
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The breach goes back to 2018, when Thomas sold staged paparazzi photos to the press just days before the royal wedding. That betrayal has been the wall between them ever since.
Meghan reportedly sent him a letter after his amputation, but a letter doesn't undo six years of silence, and Thomas still has never held either grandchild.
'One day those kids will ask about their "other" grandfather, the one who isn't King, the one that Meghan and Harry are apparently ashamed of,' he said. 'I hope they know how much I wanted to meet them.'
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Charles has reportedly already spent private time with both kids this year, and once the Sussexes are settled permanently in the UK, regular visits stop being a logistical headache and start being normal life. No more flights, no more security checks, and no more waiting for years between visits. Just a grandfather who can pop around.
Compare that to Thomas: recovering from surgery, thousands of miles away, learning his grandchildren are leaving the country from a television he doesn't even remember turning on.
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One grandfather arrives for tea, while the other receives a headline in the news. Establishing a permanent UK base also brings British tabloids to the forefront. Thomas's latest plea ensures this story will keep getting attention.
Every new headline about the Sussexes trying to repair their relationship with the Palace is juxtaposed with the fact that no such reconciliation has ever occurred with Meghan's own father.
Public pleas have never granted him private access, not once, despite years of legal threats and tearful appeals on television. He has begged on breakfast shows, threatened legal action, and even sought help from a queen.
None of these efforts has been successful. Meghan's representatives haven't responded to his latest comments, and there is no indication that will change.
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A couple famous for guarding their privacy is crossing an ocean to get closer to one grandfather while leaving the man who actually raised Meghan permanently on the other side of the world.
Archie and Lilibet are about to start British school and build a real relationship with the king who already knows them. Their American grandfather is stuck exactly where he's been for six years: propped up in a hospital bed, waiting for a phone call that never comes.
